Friday, November 22, 2013

Child Bullying: Who Do We Blame?


I am sure that many of you have noted the anti-bullying campaigns flying around social media and everywhere for that matter.  I have heard many stories of children getting bullied recently. In fact, I went through something similar not too long ago with my sixteen-year-old sister. My question is why is this still an issue? We have all seen the results of bullying, and many have claimed to be against it. Why then, is it still such a common occurrence? Who is to blame? And why does it seem to be starting so early, as in Kindergarten?

I want to tell you my sister’s story first so that I can explain how I have a connection to the issue on a personal level. I am 28 years old, and my sister is 16. I have always been a big part of her life and when her father was not able to go to school to take care of things, I did. When she was in elementary school, she had some issues that made her very different from other children her age. It was in the third grade that she started showing signs of being bullied. So we, her father and I, sat down and asked her all about it. She explained that she was being made fun of at school and wanted to stop going to school. We explained to her that she was beautiful, and she would encounter people who were going to be hateful to her all of her life. She just needed to keep her head up and move forward. She did exactly that. This girl was a survivor I tell you! Every now and again, she would come home and cry and tell me how bad things were, but she never doubted that she was not good enough. She knew she was perfect! After the third grade, we moved. She went to a new school and all seemed fine for a few years. Then high school came, and it seemed we were right back to square one. This time, however, she was not going to take the bullying. So she began to get into arguments and even fights with people at school. I was called several times to meeting with the counselor and principal. They all told me she was a trouble maker. Her father and I were constantly punishing her for her actions. She kept complaining that she was only defending herself. I advised her to tell the counselor or principal then next time it happened instead of taking matters into her own hands. A few days later this girl began to attack my sister verbally at school again, and so she reported it. No action was taken against the student. The next day this same girl spits on my sister during a pep rally and she reports the event and again, no action was taken. I went the next day to report it to the principal. She assured me that this girl would be punished. The girl was never punished and the very next day the girl started again on my sister. This time there was a big fight with a teacher to witness the event. I attended a disciplinary hearing where my sister explained that she was tired of being bullied, and that is why she got into the fight. The director of the board of education’s response to her was “What exactly is your term of bullying? This word keeps getting thrown around these days. I see nothing of the sort in the situation that you could call bullying. None of your claims are considered bullying.” I was shocked! So if this is not bullying, what is? Needless to say my sister was sent to alternative school. She is a strong girl, and I am sure all will be well with her but what if she decided to end her life because of it all? We have heard of this happening before, it is not uncommon, as sad as it is.

I have seen other families going through the same thing. I know a boy with a form of Autism called Asperger. To make matters worse for this young man he comes from a family of giants. So he is a big boy. He is ten years old, 5’7, and at least two hundred pounds. There are things that trigger him, and he acts out sometimes. He is not the type of person who makes friends easy. These are all symptoms to his medical condition. I will not go into full detail, but I will say that this poor child has been picked on from day one in school. I do not know how much damage it can cause in the long run for a five-year-old  to have to worry about things like this, but I am sure that they are much worse than we think. I also just read on Facebook about a ten-year  old little girl getting made fun of for being over weight! Come on, what in the world are we the parents teaching our children? Is it even our fault?

Who can prevent this from happening? I do think it starts at home. I am constantly telling my children that they are not in any way better than the next person. I make sure they know how much I love them, how smart they are, how pretty they are, and how proud I am of them. When they notice that someone that is different I explain that they are smart in their own way, they are pretty in their own way, and I am sure that their mom and dad are very proud of them. I have never had a problem with my children being a bully. In fact, my son’s teacher tells me that my son is friends with everyone in class and is well loved by everyone. When he misses school, every student in the classroom notices and is upset by it.  I am proud of this fact!

I also feel that teachers and school faculty has a responsibility to the students. I think they should pay closer attention to each of their students so that when they notice a change in behavior, they can immediately reach out and take action. I do not feel like enough is done in schools to prevent students who are different from being made fun of. I also do not feel that enough is done to discipline known bullies.

I think the community needs to be involved. I firmly believe that it takes a village to raise a child. If the community is against bullying, then it will make it harder for the schools or parents to let it slide!

I encourage everyone to look at the bigger picture. I am not trying to make a political statement here, I am simply saying for the welfare of our children, even adults, in this world we need to do everything we can to stop this from happening. Children are killing themselves over this; people are dying over being bullied. I think it is way past time to STOP BULLYING!

Interesting links you should look at:




Indentured Servants and Natives in American History: A Quick Review


 I would like to very quickly list a few references that all of you may want to look over that explains some other issues on American history and the suffering by the white people and immigrants that took place. I recently received a comment that offered the advice that I write something on the subject. This is not all I intend to post in fact; I will be working diligently over the next few weeks researching all the facts so that I can write an article on the topic.  As for now I want to supply a few links that might give some insight to those of you that may not understand what it truly took to create a country as grand as the United States of America. It may not be as pretty as you thought. And this is not including what African Americans went through. This only focuses on white people and white immigrants.

Here are the links:

·        Clark, F. E. (1912).  Our immigrants at Ellis Island. Boston, MA: United Society of Christian Endeavor. Retrieved from the Library of Congress at http://www.loc.gov/teachers/classroommaterials/primarysourcesets/immigration/pdf/our_immigrants.pdf

This link is an account of what immigrants coming to America had to endure upon arrival. I highly recommend this link if you want to understand what it felt like if you were a foreigner coming to make a new life in America. From the beginning, you were inspected from head to toe and questioned several times. It is a sad but true account of how we managed immigrants. I loved the conversation between Pat O’Flaherty and the inspector. I give this man a round of applause!


This discusses what indentured servants went through. For those of you that do not know what an indentured servant is, let me explain. The term indentured servant basically meant a form of bondage. Mostly, this was debt bondage because the wealthy would pay for the poor man’s (or women’s) trip to America, as long as they worked for them for a time period. Normally, this was seven years. This is a pretty good link that provides insight to the indentured servant’s life.


This link goes over the Jamestown Settlement and the Natives there. It is a good way to understand early America and the Natives thoughts.


This link explains that it is thought that the first slave owner in America was actually a black man.


This link is all about white slaves. The title says it all. The Forgotten Slaves: Whites in Servitude in Early America and Industrial Britain.

I hope that everyone seriously takes the time to go over these links and maybe learn something new. I wish I had enough time to tell you all about this topic, but I am slammed with other projects right now. Let me know if you liked something you have seen, or if you have any recommendations on references for the upcoming blog on this topic.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

President Obama Omitted the Words "Under God" in the Gettysburg Address


 
I have been hearing a lot of uproar over President Obama’s omission of “under God” during his recitation of the Gettysburg Address. Though I completely understand why this is causing such a controversy throughout America; I also understand why he did it. It is said that there are actually five versions of the speech written by President Abraham Lincoln. Being a Christian myself and a firm believer in God, it would bring joy to my heart to believe that the real Gettysburg Address contained the words “under God” in it. However, knowing my history the way I do can make the fact that it may not believable.

What is the scoop?  
 
So the story hitting the media is that Chris Plante, a Washington DC radio host, noted an odd change in President Obama’s recitation of the Gettysburg Address for documentary producer Ken Burns. It seems that instead of saying, "that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom," President Obama conveniently left out the words “under God." This is a big deal, right? Well, for most of us that are Christian it is. Even so, what is the truth behind the situation?

The History behind the Gettysburg Address.
 

President Abraham Lincoln may not have said the words “under God” in his original address. In fact, there are actually five different copies of the written address by Abraham Lincoln. The Library of Congress holds the two earliest versions of the address. It is said that he wrote one of those before the speech and is considered to be the Nicolay version. This is because he gave the document to John Nicolay, one of his secretaries who later donated it to the Library of Congress. The three other copies of the famous Gettysburg Address is scattered throughout the country. In the Nicolay version, the words “under God” do not exist. Why you ask do the words exist in the other versions but not this one?

Well, some historians consider this version to be a rough draft of the speech, while others argue something else entirely. The truth about the matter is, President Lincoln may not have written the words “under God" initially. In fact, he was a man who had little faith in God in his early years. He was not committed to a church family or a certain religion. This did not mean that he did not believe in God. The late president once stated, “That I am not a member of any Christian Church, is true; but I have never denied the truth of the Scriptures; and I have never spoken with intentional disrepect of religion in general, or of any denomination of Christians in particular,”(Lincoln, 1846). So is the idea that he omitted the words “under God” really all that unbelievable? Yes, by the time he gave the speech he had grown remarkably in his faith. He also was a politician. He realized that Americans were religious people and there were times where he used faith to make a point. Take, for example, a quote from President Abraham Lincoln, “Near eighty years ago we began by declaring that all men are created equal; but now from that beginning we have run down to the other declaration, that for SOME men to enslave OTHERS is a "sacred right of self-government." These principles cannot stand together. They are as opposite as God and mammon; and whoever holds to the one, must despise the other" (Lincoln, 1854). I do not think it impossible that he eventually added the words “under God” in the copies he wrote for Charities.

Conclusion

Let us now get back to the present. Ken Burns has stated that he asked President Obama to recite the Nicolay version of the Gettysburg Address and so the president did just that. I do not think that he intentionally left out the words “under God". I think he was merely reciting the version specified to him. I am not a huge Obama fan. I do not like how he is running our country, and I detest ObamaCare immensely. This is my opinion, and everyone is entitled to theirs. However, I will give him credit on this issue as bad as I hate to admit that.  

References:

American Treasures of the Library of Congress. (2010). Picture of “Nicolay Copy” Gettysburg Address. Retrieved from website: http://www.loc.gov/exhibits/treasures/images/frstdrt1.jpg



Pictures and signature credits:

Abraham Lincoln (1863). Foto: Alexander Gardner. Retrieved from website: http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Lincoln

American Treasures of the Library of Congress. (2010). Picture of “Nicolay Copy” Gettysburg Address. Retrieved from website: http://www.loc.gov/exhibits/treasures/images/frstdrt1.jpg

Links that may interest you:



 

 

African Americans in History

I have been watching a show on PBS over the last few weeks called Many Rivers to Cross. This show is remarkable and brings to light the challenges that African Americans have faced over the course of time. I recently completed an American History class at Ashford, and we went into detail on all the struggles that occurred for this culture. I am sure that most of you know about all the trials African Americans went through but for those of you who do not I want to share the paper I wrote about the topic. Please note that this is an academic paper where strict guidelines were set. I did not have much of an option on what I wanted to focus my paper on, and so I cover a wide variety of issues. Because of this, I was not able to add all the facts and events that occurred. If you are interested in learning more please feel free to read over all the sources I listed. I also highly recommend watching or even buying the DVD from PBS called Many Rivers to Cross. I swear this show is a wake-up call and there are parts that made me tear up. I certainly have a few new heros because of the strength and courage these people showed. 


There are people in this great country of ours that believe that America was founded and built by the Pilgrims and white people. They would be wrong in more ways than one if they carry that opinion. In fact, there would not have been progress in America had it not been for African Americans. They came to America as slaves and helped build this country from the bottom up. However, there lay the problem for African Americans. They came here as slaves and it stayed this way for some time. Over the course of history, however, they built a culture and identity for themselves no matter how much slave owners wanted to destroy that. It all came down to slaves wanting equality and freedom and in the 19th century they fought for those rights. The Civil War was a war fought for many reasons but one of the main reasons was the freedom of slaves. In 1865 when it ended, slaves finally received freedom. But it was not the freedom they thought they would have.

       In 1866 congress passed the Civil Rights Act giving all African Americans citizenship. During the Reconstruction Era many positive and some negative changes occurred for African Americans and life seemed to be getting better for them. In 1881 however, Tennessee passed one of the very first Jim Crow laws and this eventually led to Plessy v. Ferguson making segregation legal. This is where achievements for African Americans began to decline. Events taking place in the south and life for African Americans in general got so bad that many African Americans moved up North in search of jobs and such. This was known as the Great Migration. Race riots began to break out everywhere leaving many dead in its wakes. Then comes a great time for African Americans, the Harlem Renaissance in which the culture of African Americans began to shape our country.  All the while, before and during this amazing time for African Americans, they are still living without true equal rights as whites. They are still segregated and are building up for the final battle so to say. The Civil Rights Era is perhaps the most important period for African Americans and in the end was the last leg of the race to freedom and equality. They eventually won and received the rights they had fought for since America had begun. All the events that occurred and the tenacity and will power of African Americans and their supporters was the driving force that in the end gave them freedom and equality.

   We all know the struggles that occurred to even start this great country we know today.  From battles fought abroad to right here at home we gained our independence and settled issues that made us great. The Civil War is important for all Americans but not like it is for African Americans. When the North won and slavery was abolished many African Americans went through a rough time. In 1866, congress passed the Civil Rights Act and this was expected to be a positive change for African Americans. This Act ensured that African Americans were allowed the same rights as the white man but did not enforce these rights. When the Reconstruction period came, many issues looked promising for African Americans. But that was cut short when Tennessee passed one of the first Jim Crow laws and soon after many more southern states followed.

   When ugly Jim Crow reared its ugly head things went downhill for African Americans for the most part. Jim Crow laws basically stated that African American’s in southern states were “separate but equal” and allowed segregation in all public places. Making matters worse was the fact that most of the places that were specified for African Americans were not the same standards as the white people putting many at a disadvantage in fields like education and social standards. A huge loss for African Americans was when the Supreme Court ruled that segregation was legal in the Plessy v. Ferguson case. It seemed that all the accomplishments African Americans had made were for nothing in some cases and a decline in those accomplishments occurred afterwards. Maybe it was impart due to fear because of the violence from the Ku Klux Klan. Whatever the reasons all these events lead to African Americans looking for a way out and for a better life and this is what started the Great Migration.

   More than six million African Americans moved from the south to the north and other cities across the United States trying to gain better employment and living opportunities in 1916 and continuing for quite a while afterward. This was coined the Great Migration and had huge impacts on America. Due to War World One many industries were in high demand for workers and advertised this need. African Americans seen this as a way to better their financial standings and escape the horrible conditions they were living with in the south. This move did not come with all positives however. Because so many migrated to these cities they had to compete for jobs, where most landed one eventually in places that offered awful working conditions. Adding to the distress of work was home life. African Americans faced trying to find a home in an overpopulated city. This lead most to pay rents that were outrageous and living conditions were hardly reasonable let alone good. As if these issues were not bad enough they also had to deal with racism from white people. Though the north did not have segregation there were many that did not like “black” people and mistreated them by way of words and actions. This made relationships bad between the two races and eventually led to major race riots.

   In 1919, race riots began and seemed to be at their worse. Probably the most infamous of these riots took place in Chicago. This particular riot occurred because a “black” teen was swimming in Lake Michigan and accidently went into a white only area of the lake. His punishment for his accident was drowning. They drowned him and the authorities did nothing to the white people for it. And so began the riots and lasted for thirteen days. In the end, 537 were injured, 38 were dead, and 1,000 black families were without homes. These race riots occurred in cities such as Omaha Nebraska, Washington DC, Longview Texas, and Knoxville Tennessee. This time period became known as the “Red Summer”. Though bad things had occurred, some good came from the riots such, particularly from the Chicago incident, such as it being a wakeup call to the violence and steps towards peace.

   Let us take a look at a positive occurrence for African Americans. The Harlem Renaissance was a time when African Americans made a new name for themselves. In the 1920’s and 30’s huge accomplishments, mostly in literature and arts, came from a city called Harlem in New York. This period paved way for the “New Negro Movement” advocating for civil and political rights. It was done though beautifully written books and other works of arts. Though it did not accomplish its goals it did some good by waking up some people towards the notion of peace. Some influential artists that made this happen are Walter White, Du Bois, Arna Bontemps, James Weldon Johnson, and Zora Neale Hurston. Though these people and the many others that hand their hand in the Harlem Renaissance did not achieve true equality they certainly paved the way for others in the future to do so. This brings us to one of the greatest achievement for African Americans and a change that shaped our modern world today. This was called the Civil Rights Movement and it was a hard and grueling fight.

   The Civil Rights Movement officially began in 1954. The NAACP had been trying to convince congress to banish Jim Crow Laws for quite some time before 1954 with little to no success. In 1952, however, five different cases of it being unconstitutional for states to allow segregation went to the Supreme Court. They combined all these cases and named it, Brown v. Board of Education. It took a while to get a unanimous vote but in 1954 the Supreme Court finally had a ruling. They ruled that it was indeed unconstitutional to allow segregation and banished the Jim Crow Laws. This was a huge victory for the NAACP and African Americans. One would think that this would have been the magic answer to all the problems that existed but that would be far from the truth. In fact that was just the beginning to the struggle. The Supreme Court did not give any direction as to how to carry out the process of desegregating schools and left it up to each individual state. Because most states were for segregation, they had no intention of hurrying the process along. And so the Civil Rights Movement began in earnest.

   Many African Americans from all over the south began to stand up for their rights after this. Rosa Parks was a lady who refused to move to the back of the bus that was designated for “colored people”. This actually kicked of a bus boycott. In Montgomery Alabama in 1955, African Americans began this bus boycott, with Martin Luther King Jr. leading the way. These boycotters refused to ride any city bus, going so far as to arrange carpools, so that they could get rid of segregation on buses. This lasted over a year and on 1956, federal district court ruled in Browder v. Gayle that bus segregation was illegal and this was yet another major feat for African Americans. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, “We came to see that, in the long run, it is more honorable to walk in dignity than ride in humiliation. So … we decided to substitute tired feet for tired souls, and walk the streets of Montgomery”, (Stanford University, n.d).  

   What happened in 1957, nine African American students in Little Rock Arkansas enrolled in an all- white high school. The students of Little Rock Central High School were not allowed to enter the school however because of the violent threats and remarks by current students and the Governor, Orval Faubus. The parents of the white students threatened to block the school doors and the Governor called in the National Guard to keep the nine African American Students out of the school. This went national and President Eisenhower federalized the National Guard and sent troops in from the Army to protect the nine students and allow them to go to school there. Needless to say this group finally was able to attend Little Rock Central High School though it came with a price of bullying, mental and physical violence, and a hard long year. This group became known as the Little Rock Nine.

   The whole time all of this was going on Martin Luther King Jr. and advocates for African Americans Civil Rights were still carrying out peaceful protest. In Nashville Tennessee in 1959, a large group of African American college students planned and carried out sit-ins.  They filled stores and restaurants in downtown that were “white only” and peacefully sat there until they were forced out by authorities. They were arrested but persevered and in 1960 the city officials and business owners agreed to desegregate businesses. This was a huge stepping stone for African Americans and though they were close to winning the fight for Civil Rights they still had a long road ahead of them. Determination drove them to continue.

   More peaceful protest were carried out such as Freedom rides, the March of Washington D.C., speeches from Martin Luther King Jr., and Malcolm X coming into the mix with his violent protests. Throughout all of these things African Americans were gaining ground and in 1964 President Lyndon Johnson signs the Civil Rights Act. It was victory for African Americans allowing the Federal government to step in and protect them in areas of education and discrimination. Martin Luther King Jr. was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize and life was getting better. But there was much still left to be done.

  In 1965, Martin Luther King Jr. led thousands of men and women on the march  to Selma for voting rights. But it truly all began in earlier in the year when this march proceeded and cruel violence and death occurred. It was known as “Bloody Sunday” and Dr. King set the peaceful marches into action. It was a long hard road but eventually gained to support it needed, even from the President of the United States. In August of 1965 President Johnson signed the Voting Rights Act of 1965. Another amazing victory for African Americans but sadness was still to come.

   Many positive changes began to occur after 1965 for African Americans. Though still, riots broke out in some places and issues were still going around. The majority was looking up for them during this time. It was in April of 1968 that a major tragedy occurred for African Americans and in general America. In a Memphis Tennessee after giving a speech at the Mason Temple, 39 year old King was shot and killed. He later died at a local hospital and the nation wept. James Earl Ray was arrested for the murder. It was sad day to say the least. Though sad that such a great man was lost his accomplishments and the accomplishments of all involved in the Civil Rights Act live on today.

   It is important to remember that though African Americans came to this great country as slaves, they were still human beings. Without them, their hard work, dedication, drive, forgiveness, and culture the face of America would not be what it is today. They not only lived through some of the worst times but have been here through the best as well. The brilliant and passionate individuals that pushed for freedom and equality deserve more than just respect but also they deserve to remain in name in American History.

   In 1866, when congress passed the Civil Rights Act giving all African Americans citizenship it was a turning point in our history.  The Reconstruction Era may have failed at so much but paved the way for African Americans for the future. In 1881 however, The Jim Crow laws and Plessy v. Ferguson making segregation legal was a back track in progress but it once more was the path to improvement of the lives of these great people. The Great Migration and Race riots changed the culture of American across the board and gave opportunity to people who never would have had it. It came with a price but as we have seen throughout history, it was always something African Americans were willing to pay for the fight. It just shows the strength these people had. The Harlem Renaissance was a remarkable time for African Americans in which the culture of African Americans began to shape our country and their true identity of them began to shine. The Civil Rights Era is perhaps the most important period for African Americans. It pushed Americans apart and then brought us together. It brought us some pretty magnificent people like Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., The Little Rock Nine, Rosa Parks, and all the college students of the sit-ins just to name a few. They eventually won and received the rights they had fought for since America had begun during this time. Again, can you not see how hard work, dedication and strength play a major role for African Americans? All the events that occurred and the tenacity and will power of African Americans and their supporters was the driving force that in the end gave them freedom and equality.
References:

Beacham, T. Gilmartin, B., Grobman, S, Ling, C., & Rhee, V. (Producers), Libretto, J. (Director). (2004).  Let freedom ring: Moments from the civil rights movement, 1954-1965 [News program]. New York, NY: NBC Universal. Retrieved from http://digital.films.com/OnDemandEmbed.aspx?Token=40565&aid=18596&Plt=FOD&loid=0&w=640&h=480&ref=

Brown, S. (2006). World, image and the new negro: representation and dentity in the harlem rennaissance. American Periodicals, 16(1), 119-121. Retrieved from http://muse.jhu.edu.proxy-library.ashford.edu/journals/modernism-modernity/v013/13.2chinitz.html

Capeci, D.J. (2001). Race riot redux: william m. tuttle, jr. and the study of racial violence. Reviews in American History, 29(1), 165-181. Retrieved from http://muse.jhu.edu.proxy-library.ashford.edu/results#type=ajax&startYear=&stopYear=&limits=subscription:Y&terms=content:race%20Riots%201917:AND&m=1

Cosby, B. (2004, May 17).  Address at the NAACP on the 50th anniversary of Brown v. Board of Education. Retrieved from http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/billcosbypoundcakespeech.htm

Hartt, R. L. (1921, Jan. 15).  “The new Negro”: “When he’s hit, he hits back!”. Independent. Retrieved from http://historymatters.gmu.edu/d/5127

Kunhardt, P., Kunhardt, P., III, and Steiner, N. (Producers). (2002).  What is freedom?.  [Series Episode] from P. Kinhardt & S. Sheppard (Executive Producers) Freedom: A History of US. United States: PBS. Retrieved from http://digital.films.com/OnDemandEmbed.aspx?Token=44253&aid=18596&Plt=FOD&loid=0&w=640&h=480&ref= 

McDougald, E. J. (1925). The double task of Negro womanhood.In A. Locke (Ed.), The New Negro: An Interpretation. Retrieved from http://historymatters.gmu.edu/d/5126

Pollard, S. (Producer & Director). (2012).  Slavery by another name.  [Documentary]. United States: Twin Cities Public Television, Inc. Retrieved from http://video.pbs.org/video/2176766758/


 United States Congress. (1866, April 9).  Civil Rights Act.  Retrieved from http://www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/exhibits/reconstruction/section4/section4_civrightsact1.html
Here is the link to the show, Many Rivers to Cross, on PBS. I highly recommend exploring this link.
http://www.pbs.org/wnet/african-americans-many-rivers-to-cross/
 
 

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Am I Country?


I come from a very minuscule town in Tennessee called Cedar Hill. I literally mean a tiny little dot on the map but I am very proud to say I was born and raised in this town. According to Census Viewer in 2000, the population consisted of only 298 people. I am nearly positive that the number has gone up since 2000 because there is a new house popping up almost every day there now. When I was growing up, there was not much Cedar Hill had to offer. You had two gas stations, a post office, one school, railroad tracks, quite a few churches, and lots and lots of farm land. You had to drive to Springfield or Clarksville, which was about a 15-minute drive either way, just to go to Wal-Mart or to the movies. The thing that Cedar Hill did offer was peace and quiet and semi seclusion from big-city life. It was the ideal place to live if you worked in the capital, Nashville, because you only had a 30 minute commute, and it was nothing like living in the city. Honestly, I think that is why the city is growing like it is even today. Yes, much has changed since then because there is certainly less farm land and more houses and people. Instead of there being only one school, there are now two.

My point is I have noticed that country life is turning into something different now days. You see less and less farm land and more and more subdivisions taking its place. Why, is the question? Perhaps it is because people really want to escape the commotion that big-city life offers and come home simply to relax. Or maybe it is because being "country" is the popular thing to do these days.

It is not hard to miss; you all see the signs of being considered this so called “country” as a good thing. I cannot log onto Facebook once without one of my friends posting something about how “country” they are and how they are the best because of it. Honestly, I have even been guilty of posting some of these things myself. Who can help it really, a lot of these little sayings are cute. Nonetheless, it seems that being "country" now makes you popular. They even have guidelines to go by to tell if you can truly be considered "country". One of the most popular seems to be the fact that you must love camo. In fact, the more camo stuff you own the better. They even sell camo living room furniture! Now please do not get me wrong, I love anything camo. I would love to have a camo bed set and I love all my camo shirts and jackets. Seriously though, just because someone loves camo, it makes them country? I think not! So in order to be considered "country" you have to have a passion for big trucks, even better for you if you happen to own one. It is a bonus if the truck is loud, and you must take this truck mudding weekly. Again, I do have a truck, and it does have a lift kit on it, also it happens to be dueled out. I happen to love my truck, and I have gone mudding in it several times. It is fun; I get that. But because I own this truck and love my camo can I seriously call myself a true country girl? No, I cannot. There are other things that people who claim to be "country" say they love like hunting, fishing, preferring to sit round a fire instead of going to a restaurant. The list goes on and on really but do these “country” people truly love these things?

Why is it about being "country" that is now so popular? I have asked this question before, and many people like to blame the show Duck Dynasty. I do love this show, very much, but I would have to disagree with this response. In fact, being “country” was becoming favored long before the show came out. I would honestly say that it was this new trend that helped make the show as popular as it is today. Mind you, I said it helped the show because I feel this is not the only contributing factor in its popularity. I actually think Si and the fact that they are close nit, no drama, laid back, and God-fearing family is what helped the show rise to the top. What other shows offer those qualities on the television today? Few!  I can say that I agree that the show may be contributing to the rising trend now. So if not the show, what then?
Do you not think that it should take some country values and experience to be able to call yourself “country”? I am an avid fisher; I own a big truck; I like to hunt even if I rarely do it, I think mudding is super fun and somewhat scary at times; I own my fair share of camo items, and I love to sit round a fire. Do these aspects about me make me country?  Here are some more things about me. I like to shop, go out to eat, and I prefer to live somewhere in between the sticks and the big city. I enjoy going these great cities and hanging out, but I definitely would never want to live in one. Does this revoke my right to call myself "country"? I think not; I do truly believe that I am country. I know country people; I have many friends who are "country". I think being "country" is all about moral values and not property values. I think country people are people that live life the best they can, making ends meet, and lending a helping hand to whoever needs the help. Country people are known for their morals, their love of the land, their love for the outdoors, their passion for food, their passion for family and friends, and most of all their respect for the Lord. Do not confuse “country” people with rednecks and cowboys. I find that there is a difference. Just take a look at the Robertson family from Duck Dynasty. What do these people have that is not only camo and beards?  They have God, family, love for the outdoors, and morals. This is what makes someone “country” in my book.

So are people flocking to the country because it is the popular thing to do or for the right reasons. I am still not sure what the answer for this question is. However, I do know this. If you are moving to the country and building all these subdivisions just because it is the popular thing to do then please stop! You are ruing the land and the seclusion it offers and when the trend is over and being “country” is no longer the popular thing to be, what happens then? We are left with vacant neighborhoods full of houses and paved cul de sacs that could have been better used as farm land and putting food on the tables of American households.
Here is a link that you may find interesting:
Duck Dynasty Values